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We all know that brides will ask, or rather, instruct their maids to help with certain tasks throughout the wedding planning process. What about the men? You can’t let them think that their task is to turn up on the day and get drunk, can you? Here’s a list for the clueless best man.
1. Organise the alcohol and women-filled (we all know what men get up to) stag night. It’s every guy’s excuse to party like there’s no tomorrow. Most importantly though, remember to bring the groom back in ONE piece. The last thing a bride needs is to have her knight in shining armour standing next to her at the altar with a half-shaven head. She will, and I repeat, she will take revenge regardless of whether you’re the groom’s brother or best friend.
2. Help the groom pick out the outfits if he hasn’t done so already and coordinate with other groomsmen for fittings or rentals. Men are not good at shopping so he’ll need a second opinion.
3. If it’s an out of town wedding, assist with bookings for accommodation and transportation. The bride and groom already have so much on their hands, you’ll help keep them sane.
4. Help with the boutonnieres and make sure they are clipped onto the left lapel.
5. You are responsible for the wedding bands so make sure to keep the rings in easy-to-reach pockets and DO NOT dare forget or lose them. If you haven’t seen what a bridezilla is like, now you will.
6. Make sure the groomsmen are doing their duties i.e. helping guests to their seats, and aren’t faffing around before the ceremony.
7. Help with coordinating the photo session, calling out names or groups of people, especially when the party is big.
8. Welcome and mingle with guests, even if you don’t know them.
9. Lucky you. Not only do you need to make the first toast to the new Mr. and Mrs., you’ve also got the ardous task of the best man speech. Keep it short with snippets of the groom’s most embarrassing moments in his life and make sure you’re heard. There’s no point in being nervous for nothing when none of the guests can even hear you.
10. Enjoy the celebrations!